Thursday, January 5, 2017

Clap Back 2017: The Panelists



I am honored and pleased to have the following five women as panelists for Clap Back 2017: It's for their own good: Poet Lightning, Chinyere E. Oteh, De-Andrea Blaylock-Johnson, Raquita Henderson, and Pacia Elaine. These women have served as mentors on my journey and the journey of countless others from the St. Louis area who have branched out to multiple areas of the country and world spreading the magic of Powerful Black Womanhood. Along with mentoring, teaching, performing, and counseling, these women pay it forward by continuing to give and provide opportunities for everyone they see. To know these women is to love them.


POET LIGHTNING





Poet Lightning is a Spoken Word Artist, producer, host, and proud mother of three. A recipient of numerous awards for her spoken word performances including STL's Hottest Spoken Word Artist 2009-2012. 
A St. Louis native, she has performed in various cities throughout the US. She is also a producer and host of the open mic show Hustle & Flow....The Experience, which celebrated five years of existence in 2016, making it a staple in St. Louis.
Poet Lightning is also host of Love Jones Theory and My First Love is Poetry, which has brought out poets like Jus Will and Mreld Green. She is also a spokesperson for Girls Holla Back, an outlet for providing awareness of HIV/AIDS to young ladies between the ages of 12-17. She has been recently added to an all female collective based in Atlanta, GA knows as Adams Rib, founded by profound poet Georgia Me. No matter where she goes, she heats the air with love and expressions of confessions from her transgressions. 
Poet Lightning is instrumental in inspiring writers to get on the mic for the very first time with an entity called Poetic Cherry Pop Awards. It is introduced at all three shows she hosts here in St. Louis metro. Here is where she gives a certificate to those brave souls who embrace the mic for the very first time. 
Get a taste of the Poet Lightning to understand why "Thickness makes 'em weak." THE ATTRACTION  I WANNA B YO FREAK  WHO THE HELL IS BOO!? 




DE-ANDREA BLAYLOCK-JOHNSON





De-Andrea Blaylock-Johnson is licensed in the state of Missouri as a Clinical Social Worker and has worked in the field of mental health since 2004. She is passionate about helping others achieve their goals and live as whole persons. De-Andrea firmly believes you must be the change you wish to see in this world and endeavors to positively impact her clients through her interactions with them. As the owner of Sankofa Sex Therapy, LLC, she helps individuals and those in all types of relationships reach their goals. She conducts workshops about sexuality and intimacy building and is an Executive Committee Member of the Women of Color Sexual Health Network. In addition to being your favorite sex therapist, she's a hunter of fabulous earrings.
Read an interview with Ebony Magazine where De-Andrea discusses Tips for a happy, healthy sex life after rape.

RAQUITA HENDERSON


Raquita Henderson a relationship photographer who works best with people who value partnership in their personal and professional lives. She is the owner, lead photographer, and primary creator of awesomeness at Pinxit Photo

"I am a hard person to put in a category. I’ve been a “creative” all my life. And hard to categorize for just as long. Painting, poetry, cooking; anything that makes people happy I love to be involved in. My dad gave me a camera when I was 12 and started me on my own affair with photography that has spanned over 20 years. I shot my first wedding in 1990, and have been on this path ever since.
For me it’s all about story telling and having the.best.time. Whether in a portrait session or a wedding day there is a story unfolding – and I love to find it, capture it and give it back to you to enjoy and relive over again.
I’m supposed to tell you how much I love caramel macchiatos and romantic comedies, but I figure that can wait until we meet in person. I’ll forgo the traditional “I am passionate about photography” speech mmm’kay?
It would be my biggest honor to join you in your life, with your family and friends, to capture images you will cherish."



PACIA ELAINE



Pacia Elaine is a visionary in performance and word art. A St. Louis-based poet, writer, visual, and teaching artist, she uses the art of the narrative to both make sense of the world around her and to tell good stories. Her poetry is a charismatic blend of rhyme, layered imagery, and fantasy, all of which are used to explore complex subject matter through seemingly disparate concepts, the fusion of which encourages listeners and readers alike to examine the seemingly disparate parts of themselves. An unwavering affirmer of the power of spoken word as a conduit for personal transformation, Pacia's goal is to use her work to encourage others to think deeper, write imaginatively, and to express their true voice."

CHINYERE E. OTEH






Chinyere E. Oteh is an organizer, an artist, a mother and a seeker.  She is a St. Louis native who has also lived and worked in Detroit and Washington D.C.   On the creative side she has examined her own mixed-race identity through autobiographical writing and photographic self-portraiture and has taught photography to the young and old throughout St. Louis.  On the collective side she is a Community Matchmaker who founded a time bank, in 2010, called Cowry Collective - a network geared toward forging economic equity and bridging racial divides all the while reminding each of us of our past rich cooperative practices. On the personal and healing side she is a fierce and loving protector to her two children birthed at home in 2008 and 2012.  She has practiced Transcendental Meditation since 2010 and has received her first two attunements in Reiki. She is very proud to have recently completed a Doula Training with Community Birth and Wellness Center in Ferguson, MO.  As Chinyere steps more fully into healing and spiritual work she continually strives to balance the demands and joys of motherhood, career and self-care.  She also rejoices in synchronicity and serendipity!



Join us for Clap Back 2017 on Sunday, January 8th at 4pm to meet these women and many others. Click the image to the right to read more about this event! 

Monday, January 2, 2017

Clap Back 2017: It's for their own good


"Once you know who you are, you don't have to worry anymore." 
-Nikki Giovanni 


To know a Black Woman is to love a Black Woman. And there ain't nothin' realer than a Black Woman who knows herself. Self knowledge, self love, and self care among black women is a radical act because so many forces in the world benefit from keeping us in the dark about our own worth.

Think about it: if you have a beautiful, rare, precious gem and you're surrounded by people who want that gem, they're coming for you. Some will come aggressively with brutish vitriol. Some will try to win your trust to get close enough to take your gem while you're not looking. Some may even try to get others to scheme and do their dirty work for them. But the most efficient method for stealing your gem wouldn't even require work on the thief's part. Because if you think your gem is worthless, you'll give it away.

Special guest: Leo Q. Davis
2017 is the year of the Clap Back. We love our communities. We care for our families. We stay involved and we take responsibility for those we care for. Because if we don't, who will? But when somebody gets out of pocket, and tries to come for our most valuable assets, we gotta let 'em know what's what no matter who they are. When we do this, we demonstrate to them how to protect their most valuable assets which makes the whole village stronger. The Clap Back is a quick and easy way to let people know that you already know who you are. If the bullshit gets shut down swiftly, then the bullshit is shut down and we can move on.

On Sunday January 8, 2017, 4pm at Yeyo Arts, The Tao of Pimpin' presents Clap Back 2017: It's for their own good. Book signing, wine tasting, and music by St. Louis's own Leo Q. Davis will follow the panel discussion/Q&A. Bring yourself, your ideas, your goals, and an open mind to celebrate, love, and know ourselves as strong Black Women. The more we talk and the more we listen, the more we know. Parental discretion is advised.

Get your signed copy of The Tao of Pimpin': a folk tale by Blue for the special Clap Back price of $12.99 (regular price, $16.99). 30% of all proceeds go to Yeyo Arts, dedicated to arts, creativity, empowerment, and self care. 

Love,
Blue